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Dare to be not so good as people

Dare to be not so good as people

Dare to be not so good as people, in fact dare to acknowledge one's own deficiency, this is courage that a kind of expectation grows up, everybody is short, really see this clearly, you could be better than people finally.

Often think oneself is not so good as people in a lot of places.

On house work, it is industrious to be not so good as the competent housewife; Not so good as the colleague who is good at watching the mood and guessing the thoughts at the work; In handling the interpersonal relationships, even is not so good as the daughter 12 years old; In the application and mastering of new knowledge, not so sensitive rapidly as young people's; Meet complexities, it is shrewd and experienced that lack the elder again, long sleeves are an advantage in a dance; To make matter worse meet emergency and lack the adaptability to changes, slow in reaction, even the thing of having a sure thing obviously, but just fail clean.

Somebody once said to me complacently: You need until I noisy, you at all noisy but I, you accurate to fail in noisy you. It thinks about to be too. Mouth slow, meet feeling anxious thing, often tongue-tied, and lose and judge, forget some core of thing at all and the other side cut fail worry about, overwhelm by the other side's momentum unexpectedly, really good-for-nothing.

Tune is put the most low and minimum, the psychology is repaired and practised the most quietly and the most quietly, has gone through devastation of a few storms and gusts and several setbacks, gradually, I want too to understand, one can not be better than people everywhere, can lose, all and getting complete, you can expect natural and man-made calamities, a heavy one perhaps. Just like little disease little calamity touching people of life, often good to enjoy natural span of life, have disease to be painless, in the limelight people often the misfortune comes sometimes hurriedly, then is inferior to defending. Destiny is often variable, doing anything should allow some leeway. In fact, from the viewpoint of another kind, dare to be not so good as people, it is the confidence to a certain extent too. Only dare to be not so good as people, could be better than people. There are skies beyond our skies, there are floors outside the building, how does one often surpass all persons everywhere? Everybody has one's own advantage and advantage, all have one's own shortcoming and weakness, maximize favourable factors and minimize unfavourable ones quick-witted, take weak place that oneself good at least go hard to touch others practise austerities best special skill, its result can be well imagined. People will have various latent energy and superior, but you can not have an opportunity to bring into play in all places, you can only fully utilize your strength in a place, exert oneself the angry place in your Mei, have no time place that take into account in you, you must might as well those fully utilize people of the strength here. Energy of you limited, opportunity too limited, so you can if place of people definite seldom, not so absolutely numerous as people's place. Understand to this you have calm psychology, really such as the people ability too only. Picture|Computer|Computer Peripheral|Laptop Battery|Computer Accessory|Electronic Part|Computer Accessories|.Paint|Painting|Oil Painting|Art|Chinese Furniture| China Market|Electronic.China Business| Doing Business in China| Hong Kong Business| International Business| Business Opportunities| China Manufacturer|.

[ 4:23 AM ] [ Wednesday, December 2, 2009 ] [ 0 Comments ] [ Post Comment ] [ Link ]

Hide the fault

Hide the fault - -Fault, fault, fault

There are a pair of young married couple, after being been married for one month, the wife wants to come home and have a look, invite the husband to go home with her. The wife says to the husband ' we go home this time, no matter to parents, or to relatives and friends, it should be courteous, it is crude and rash or have impolite places that do not need, OK? You rest assured that ' the husband says to the wife '! I will neither will make you disgraced let parents-in-law down, nor. ' after reaching her parent's home, the wife has a chat about the recent developments with parents, the husband sees on the east, has a look in the west, take a walk here, stroll there. Welding Machine Pet ShopPVC HoseSqualene|Frontline Cat,Flea MedicationElectric Welding MachineHose FittingsSkin Care|Point of SaleFrontline Tick,Flea Remedies gt1

Unconsciously, the husband has gone to the rice room, has seen the rice into a pile, expect oneself is a little hungry too, catch a handful of rice conveniently, put in mouth, filled up with the mouthful rice, it happened that at this time, the wife came into the room too, husband rice swallow, go down either for the moment, spit and can not spit.

The wife sees his painful appearance, ask what happened to he ' you? Where is uncomfortable? ' the husband can not take words out of the mouth at all, the wife sees he remains silent, wonders especially, walk close to and see him, just find cheek of husband's face all getting protruding. The wife takes husband to see her father say ' father at once! Look! Your son-in-law does not know why, both cheeks are getting swollen, there's something wrong with the possible oral cavity, you send for a doctor and see the doctor for him quickly! ' wife all the time tight side with the husband, so, the husband has not chance escaped at all, he grieves in the heart secretly: What is to be done?

Soon, the doctor has come, the doctor has looked the protruding face cheek is said ' this is a nameless tumour, should have an operation quickly, otherwise there are life dangers! ' then, having had an operation for the husband, as a result, that was got out is but only a handful of rice. Just know that ate the rice and caused secretly originally, make four people all very awkward like this.

To father-in-law, should scold a son-in-law? Do not scold? To wife, but the husband is very disgraced! To husband, eat the rice secretly, suffered in vain finally, made everybody busy oneself to no purpose. To doctor, he is extremely in straitened more circumstances, he diagnoses it is a nameless tumour, that is the knife is taken out after finishing opening is a handful of rice. So, everybody did not dare to speak, parted on bad term finally.

If people have a little contributions, or small strong point, like showing off to people, in fear others do not know. However, if there is a little fault, or there are a little shortcomings, is all afraid deeply others know, look forward to hiding. The ancient says ' if you don't want people to know what you've done, you'd better not do it. ' want, let others know one's own fault, do, because there is no concealing the truth, concealment is only for the moment, someone will know sooner or later. It is the conduct of the man of moral integrity to be open and aboveboard. Like concealing the person of the fault, is not respected finally!

People are not the sages and men of virtue, will make some mistakes once in a while, but if say honestly out, show that there is heart that repents that eliminates the fault, learn to grow up in the mistake, will let oneself be better and better!

[ 4:04 AM ] [ Wednesday, December 2, 2009 ] [ 0 Comments ] [ Post Comment ] [ Link ]

Accompanying the love to leave diligently (one)

The love is a kind of circulation, and the happy circulation.

We always over-evaluate oneself in the love, meanwhile, over-evaluate others too, we always beautified the love, meanwhile, beautified oneself too.

People have many kinds of desires, and there are many kinds of happiness; Love, a just happy one, is that kind more luxurious.

Because love is a kind of happy happiness, is a kind of luxurious happiness too.

Someone say happy secret to pay special attention to, allow rhythm of the love, what is a rhythm of the love? Remind one's own beat at any time, step on and cut down steadily, stop when should stop, leave when it's time to go, enter when should enter, retreat when should retreat.

Can listen attentively to one's own inherent sound, find out about the feeling of the other side, the rhythm of the so-called love, be just adjusted together by both sides, can master together.

Life is not so satisfactory as the absolute one. Let us use the tolerant heart, go to fill those shortcomings, let life try hard to be satisfactory. The love is two people's business, when the love come, two people should open the heart door at the same time; When the love is far away from, want, go all out together too, let, love, leave.

If, it is a kind of happiness to have love, then, it may be another happiness too to lose love; It is a kind of happiness to get; It may be another happiness too to lose.

The love is a kind of energy, and the happy energy. So long as you have been once too happy, so happy energy will stay in your soul.

I think, the vision of the love is not leaning against eyes, but depend on a gentle and sentimental soul; Happy, it is the feeling of the soul, but not the state of the marriage.

As you, know how to treasure oneself, treasure others, have greatest asset of happiness.
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[ 10:46 PM ] [ Sunday, March 8, 2009 ] [ Link ]

Accompanying the love to leave diligently

Accompanying the love to leave diligently
The love is just like a crystal, clean, thorough and cool, will also reflect the gorgeous one out multicolouredly. It is tenacious, is fragile, the ones that can be done at will appreciate, also need meticulous care  

Accompanying the love to leave as you have love diligently, you are happy, what you had is that one yuan can refract one's own crystal, this priceless treasure will bring sense of duty and strength to you, will bring courage and new student to you.

The real love is that " extremely grows the state of mind after a long period of being apart, with son Cheng Yue; Hold the sub hands, live together to a ripe old age with the son " . What kind is your love?

Perhaps the real love is not merely romantic meeting, warm attraction, fascinating sweet words and surge passion - -Perhaps it should be the deep and broad tolerance even more, the slight one is loved dearly and had pity for, light far care and silent expression   Just as the black carp shuttling back and forth under the lotus in full bloom, when the lotus is beautiful, but black carp moves about in water silently; As lotus decline, but black carp still can bring bunches of lifelike breath to you. Perhaps when it is on the fragrance of flowers is had one's mind filled with that you are cordial, you have never noticed the existence of the black carp, but regain the sight for a long time lured as you, you will find the breath of the black carp has already exuberanted in each train of thought of yours. So long as there are a pair of usual eyes, everyone can see the lotus above water. However, only person with long eyes in the heart, could see the black carp in water!

Accompany love leave diligently, love can accompany the heart move forever  
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[ 9:24 PM ] [ Sunday, March 8, 2009 ] [
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