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Really too much helplessness in life
4:12 AM, Thursday, December 10, 2009
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Really too much helplessness in life In life, it is for example a large stage, we are all a good performer, it is only that roles acted separately are different.
Famous angle, there are clowns too, there is front, there is reverse side too, the same too in actual life, there is happiness that there is agony at the same time, sad that there is happiness, there will be emotioning will have a trouble, given up even more, it is disappointed to be hopeful to have, in addition, a lot, much helplessness, helpless
A lot of things are all right for everybody to enjoy in the world, but everything can't be satisfactory and satisfactory, that is a marriage, many families seem satisfactory, but uncertain the happiness, that is not so bad
There are many persons accompanying all the life, but the heart might not accompany, that is deviating from
Have many thing bright, but able person people can have, that is money
Much extravagant hope is envied by people, but can only hope and halt, that is personality
Many realistic life lets people yearn for, but can only go to struggle, that is the goal
Have much people that oneself love can interdependent to snuggle up to, but can only lovesickness love, that is to miss
A lot of lovers can't lead along by hand all the life, the miss that but can only be hard, that is regretting
Much love is unable to express, but can only hide in the heart, that is in unrequited love with
Many ways taken by mistake can't come again from the beginning, but can only make mistakes again and again, that is vast and hazy
Much agony is unable to pour out, but can only go from my comfort, that is secret anguish
Many bright life is waving at us, but can only go to struggle hard, that is to strive
Many network friends can admire and meet each other in the firefly, but can only express the heartfelt wishes with characters, that is fate
Much fate can meet together. But can only be complacent in the heart, that is tacit understanding
Many beautiful women can't belong to one's own all, the ones that but can only go stealthily are appreciated, that is to sigh
Friends! Hope we want to treasure the thing that oneself there can be, want one's own rural area treasured place well of management meticulously, especially in actual life, want mind to be magnanimous, the calm one goes to face every thing in life, a kind and gentle one treat everyone around, a happy one spend each day, a happy one spend every for the moment, incorporate to every minute happily, only in this way, we feel, have .... Too much, too many regrets ..........
Method to communicate
3:35 AM, Thursday, December 10, 2009
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Method to communicate People are animals of the colony, it is impossible to live in solitude, unless you want to become the person isolated with the world, close oneself in an independent space, does not want to keep in touch with anyone, not wanting to ask no one to help either, that does not need to communicate with people, otherwise all unavoidable to communicate with others.
It is very important to communicate, but will choose the person that agree with compared with oneself to come and go generally while people get along with people.
Always think that does not anyway associate with one somebody, does not talk with one somebody, there are other friends equally, can live equally.
Then begin to differentiate the friend that this person is me to some extent, that person is not my friend; Or this group of people is all bad persons, I am unwilling to become friends with them.
Such a person, has already set up the good standard in the brain, has asserted some people do not prove a true friend, or not that a friend or these people will all betray him, bully him, even think others' level too bad, non- qualified and become his friend.
The person of such unwilling two-way communication, it is very difficult to make friends with him, because of, it communicates to be must two-way, if one-way to can call the communication, because have no way of communicating at all.
Cut, say as usual, so long as not no a evil friend, decrease friends, it should be that the more, the better that make friends, but if no matter how diligent you are, the other side is unwilling to accept you, still have hostility to you, then it make great efforts again, wouldn't exchanges only.
Because you have, can't become friends with him, moreover, he unwilling to associate with you, unwilling to admit you, if you insist on associating with him, not only you are very in pain, he will be in more pain. The thing has reached this stage, have no way out too.
However, even so, don't regard the other side as the enemy either, should regard him as the friend in the heart.
This is a way of the so-called ' gets rid of silently ' in Buddha dharma. It is silence to be ' silent ', ' get rid of ' just expelled, it means he does not live in my range, I do not live in his range either, do not interfere with, involve in entering each other each other.
Because since cannot communicate, then not need to impose again. Make trouble wilfully, not impervious to reason as the other side especially, you, and he reasonable speak obstructed too, that is only in silent way to get rid of.
But after he comes around to the correct way of thinking, it don't regard him as the wicked to the extreme person because of this to regard him as the friend.
In addition a way is that are sounded out, perhaps will find after several probes, perhaps let the other side misunderstand because of your method, psychology or speech, he is unable to accept. You must adjust oneself first at this moment, change up to intensity which the other side can accept, but can't totally turn oneself into the appearance that others expect, otherwise lose one's own position and principle, even common people can not accept.
You can try to try every possible means to adapt to the other side first, change one's own part, adjust numerous adaptation, the other side will come around to the correct way of thinking perhaps finally, willing a initiative or passive one keep in touch with us.
What way communicate no matter we adopt, should be all clear, it needs both sides' common efforts to communicate, it is not enough to only depend on one-sided efforts.
So except that open the ambition wide to admit others, the heart firm resisting to others, it could reach the really effective communication in this way to soften it with mercy heart too.
Firework life
5:09 AM, Thursday, August 6, 2009
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Firework life You hear the music that set aside all worries of releiving on one side,
-Appreciating the experience of the firework raised fast and disappeared in the twinkling of an eye in remotest places?
-In the quiet dim light of night, meshowfashion
-Everything is so quiet,
-Arrival of this beautiful scenery of cicada like even insect in advance.
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-When the first firework lifts off,
-Our mood, with that bursting in the twinkling of an eye of theirs too;
-Fast changing. Burst forth in a flash, kill until the mood the cigarette flies;
-Only leave some tissue, but still disappear and disappear in the twinkling of an eye ......
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-This may be transient emotion that is left to us.
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-The life is so too, I suppose,
-The life with short long bitterness is just like a quiet night sky,
-Exactly in happy happy a twinkling of an eye in life as if firework burst forth in the dim light of night in the twinkling of an eye?
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-So after the firework each time,
-People still always look back to that night sky that is full of luring again with more expression.
-Though perhaps they have been already very tired ...... American ones that are pursued by our institute,
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-While we enjoyed this transient beautiful scenery conscientiously,
-Who has thought,
-Night will pass by soon,
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-In fact,
-It is unnecessary in order to lose this kind beautiful and sentimental bitterly for us,
-Life is but a dream,
-Like the play in life,
-Life is a section of stories,
-Always can't do without interludes inside,
-End of a section of stories,
-Beginning of only a new story.
-Maybe the next story-telling session makes you unable to forget even more!
-So we needn't what be sentimental excessively in order to lose.
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-Today passed by,
-We are still afraid of tomorrow?
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-Happiness is what we want too,
-But everything is so transient,
-It is just like a firework burst forth in a flash.
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-And I think more at this moment you are just at my side .....
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-Wish the happiness not to be far away from us.
-Even the twinkling of an eye.
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-Have ever moved our thing,
-We will not only see it in eyes,
-Because when we are confused,
-Eyes are always the first one to be injured,
-Tell a maxim to us at the same time: Don't only pay attention to appearance!
-But sometimes people are so contradictory,
-Perhaps actually the thing was like this.
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-Can't only stay in the brain either,
-Because memory will be faded from memory with time.
-And we are becoming old day by day .....
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-The best method,
-Should carve it in our heart,
-Even if will bring the indistinct pain ......
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-Though will ache,
-I think that must be deep and eternal.
Aftertaste life
4:54 AM, Thursday, August 6, 2009
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Aftertaste life It was only once too to remember most beautifully,
How should the pain of injury just in the heart go to smooth?
In the love for becoming the past event, was that one happy with what we once retrieve?
It was the glory of years that the time slipping by and passing passed.
The memory in the heart but it is difficult to pass,
Sad season,
Always can let people remember the past event,
The scene is reproduced in the past,
Do not turn one's head suddenly but find the thing people of things,
The ones that can't be forgotten for a long time were only that mood at that time. . .
Life is but a dream,
Time is like the song,
Turn one's head suddenly,
Just find it is only a kind of mood that people live,
Must lose too well,
The result is only a kind of mood too.
If can be with the samsara,
I would rather hope to get back to the celestial being's world,
No matter the piping times of peace, meshowfashion
Troubled times of the flames of war raging everywhere,
The human nature will not be lost at least,
Will not lose to pursue.
Come out what thing it will be rooms of feeling,
Only let people's life and death be made!
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